Turning the beat up during sex can help you turn the heat up. And how to use music that make you really, uh, sing? You'll know the ones — whether it's Lizzo, Rihanna, Lana Del Rey, Adele, The Killers, Animal Collective, everyone can think of a few songs that gives them a big old erotic boost to feel like the sexy boss babes they are. Listen to heavy bass. Looking to feel amorous? Pick tunes from your early days of dating. Do you need help decompressing at the end of a stressful day?
2. "Thinkin Bout You" — Frank Ocean
Okay, moment of truth. Do you have a sex playlist? Whether you've got multiple musical collections, each specific to the positions presented in the Kama Sutra , or the thought of grinding to the beat of bedroom pop makes you blush, there is no denying that seven and a half minutes of Justin Timberlake setting the mood with his sensually smooth falsetto is just what the love doctor ordered. So, without further ado, here, the best songs to, err, have sex to. No need to rush things.
This slick-ass retro jam was definitely in the vinyl rotation while your pop-pop smoked nana's boots. It's probably the most gleeful song about getting fucked so hard you can't walk straight the next day, and that's something we can all get behind. Syd and her voice are sultry and seductive as hell, and this only-a-minute-long splash-inducer captures that heat perfectly. Few songwriters have had their fantasies sung about by other people as much as The-Dream has. But there's still nothing realer than when he plays all the parts. There will never be a more effective sales pitch for sex toys than this ecstatic French electroclash love song to a mini portable vibrator. Pro tip: invest in a rechargable one.
With the exception of quickies and spontaneous hookups, you absolutely need a banging playlist to have readily available as soon as the moment calls for some sexy time. Like, if you want to have slower, more passionate sex with your partner, all you have to do is pick a playlist with slower tempos. Bottom line: Regardless of what genre or tempo you and your partner decide on, music is a game changer and should absolutely be utilized the same way condoms , lube , and other sex toys are in the bedroom. Consider it a "sexcessory" if you will. So if you have zero idea where to start, don't worry, we've done some digging and curated a list of the best songs to have on in the background while doing the dirty. Pick and choose what to add to your own playlist and have some fun, my friend. Your orgasms deserve this. I mean, sex talk is literally the name of the song, so you can only assume what you're going to get when you press "play. Lyrics like "She's just like candy, she's so sweet" should totally be left up to interpretation however you see fit, babe.