And now, a final word: Send your query to askmormongirl gmail. I can say this. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead. As for the Mormon cohort he will be exposed to, I have two thoughts: And so far as I could tell, it worked and no one tried to drag her husband into the church. If he is luck to be off call during the weekend, I would sleep most of the weekends away to make up the sleep deprivation. Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. I never give him shit for it. He has never said a disparaging word about his mother.




Unconditional love, excellent communication, and unwavering support. I think that if these two really care about each other that she should be told to take a moment and ask herself how she would feel if they break up over this and years later she finally researches her religion. I'm firmly in the RUN camp. I knew that I couldn't possibly be alone. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce. I get it; I just don't buy into it. This is a very interesting blog and I'm happy to have found it. My current atheism bothers him a little but as long as we respect each other it's fine. We've been dating two plus years, and we find a key is taking vacations. And so, I always have to think about my son when I have to travel or have other work commitments.
Make sure she knows the plan, so you both can dress appropriately. She was expecting me to break up with her, like all previous guys she's been into have done. Thanks for sharing your experiences. Said he wanted those extra few minutes in the morning, but prefaced it by saying he knew it was selfish of him.
Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. I used to be religious when I was a kid. And depending on his views of the Sabbath, you will probably get the tug of war on Sundays. Well, you won't be getting into anything soon. So yea, I blame residency for his general 'unavailability', and I would assume that is the case with your guy too. You arent "giving up" anything. A shitty sex life, potentially.