But daughter and I agreed that this teaching was unhealthy. And right at that moment when I'm about to tell him this, and give him some kind of ultimatum, I hesitate. Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again. Plan on knowing their religion better than they do at all times. But he's got to know the aggravation and pain that he likely will face. Our communication is almost gone to none, he needs a lot a lot of alone time to achieve his career while i am really worried that how much longer i can live like this!!. Lack of motivation and endless loneliness that has caused me to be a lazy 15 pounds heavier woman. Be prepared for divorce.
Don't expect this to be like the others. You have to make the decision as to what you want your home and your children to have in that home. I understand in some measure of the pressure on the provider, but this profession was their choice.
I work 54 hours a week to be able to support myself my family is unable to help more than they already arevolunteer, am taking a class, and mcat studying. I am scared of passing through all this you guys have passed before i even got to this blog i've thought bout it a lot. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. That is a goal worth fighting for.
When I taught GD we discussd the lessons. If my mother needed her surgeon's attention, I wouldn't want him to be thinking about his wife's lamenting that he's never home, not romantic, etc. To her, if you don't marry in the temple, she will probably do it after you die anyway. But that parent-child relationship was bound to change anyways as you become an adult.